There is attraction among all of us. Attraction is a sort of revelation, a revelation that there is a kind of familiarity with a person you have never met before but for some reason you drop your guard to connect and become curious about them. This is attraction and it happens with any person, whether you are heterosexual or not, we are all attracted to someone of the same sex or the opposite sex but it has nothing sexual about it.
I did my healing job and I did it good. I honored my past, my Heart, my Inner Child, my wholesome desires, my hopes, my dreams my spiritual commitment and my future. I did a great job, I knew what I wanted, I knew who I have become and I was more comfortable and confident in this dating arena but still found that relationships were not working out. I could not ping point what it was until "They" broke their silence and tough me a big lesson which became s very important benchmark, one that I have never ever heard anyone talk about; not even books.
So one day I heard: “Find the Alliance first”
They said: “You move too fast, if you would first find the alliance you would understand everything better and it would be more beneficial.”
Then they expanded and told me: “Just because we send you a guy, it does not mean you have to practice dating skills anymore. In fact, this is the reason why we stop sending you guys, because you think you have to start a new romantic relationship with them and we do not want you to date every man that comes your way.”
And I said “You keep me quarantined anyway, everywhere I go I am mostly surrounded by people a lot older than me and If a guy remotely my age comes my way, I first sense for attraction and intention and then I just let it unfold.”
They said “Yes, there is Attraction but you are confusing it thinking it is a romantic attraction. Attraction is just that, attraction but the intention of the attraction is to guide you to open up and discover that person because most of the time the attraction is tied to an ALLIANCE. Not all alliances are romantic.”
I asked “What do you mean by ALLIANCE?”
They said “We send help to the world through people. People are sources of resources. When you feel attraction to one another it means that there is an ALLIANCE, a beneficial treaty between souls where people are put together to benefit each other and hence benefiting others and even the world. The two of you can trigger each other gifts and abilities. You can teach each other, grow each other, evolve each other. However, people confuse attraction as something romantic and become involve romantically and sexually and this gets them distracted from the true reason why they were brought together. In short time things become messy and they find out that they were not meant for each other because they truly were not meant to be together as couple but now, disappointed and resentful they break up and never get to find the beneficial ALLIANCE they had with each other.”
This was genius and made so much sense! It moved me to a mental and emotional state of less anxiety, more ease and true curiosity about discovering all people, men and women for who they truly are and creating true friendship. But, I have to confess, I did not follow guidance the last two times… and things got messy and I DO regret not discovering the Alliance we had. I thought “Well, I can be careful, discover the alliance while keeping the romance at the same time.” I was so wrong! But I’m human! They are not! They are divine energy. Everything is freaking perfect over there, meanwhile here on Earth people feel lonely! But I don't think divine forces get that, but we are still loved and guided and cared for unconditionally…. I know.
At the end, we truly are our brother’s keepers and caring, encouraging and uplifting each other are forms of unconditional love. We are like jigsaw puzzles coming together to form a greater picture that is a greater life, but only if we put away our self-interest and instead take our time to discover each others' true gifts, just like little children playing at the playground; no agendas, no expectations, no prejudice, only LOVE.